Inspired by Tantra’s teachings, these 5 self-explanatory tantric sex positions will surely tempt, tease and thoroughly please. 

Women, have you ever wondered if a man you recently met is really into you?

Determining if a man is actually into you is far easier than you think. 
Often women’s personal feelings distort their thinking about male/female relations.
Later, they see that they have wasted time with a man who doesn’t truly like them.

So, before you take things to the next level, study the following ways in which you can tell if he is really into you or not. 

The first 5 indicate you if he is attracted to you. 
Meanwhile, the next 5 go so far as proving if he is in love with you or not.

Even if he’s playing hard to get,  he cannot always control these behaviours so this will help reveal the truth to you about his feelings.

• Watch His Eyes…You can easily tell if he is into you just by watching his eyes. Unlike other body parts that we can control, our eyes differ. If a male or female is excited or has strong feelings about something, their pupils dilate. So, if you are talking to a guy and his pupils are dilated, he evidently likes you and is even turned on by you.  Also, when talking, you can tell by how he gazes at you and pays attention to you. Frequent eye contact means he is interested. A man often reveals far more than he desires through his eyes so look for this next time you see him.
• He Feels Happier Around You…This may seem clear but it’s often overlooked. A guy may not be able to hide his smile around you or his ‘overexcitement’ tells you all you need to know. Sometimes you may notice that he blushes easier in your presence. If he’s fond of you, this testable behaviour reveals his feelings.
• He Does What You Like To Do…Here is a prime example of what a man does to be in the presence of a woman he deeply cares for.  If he is doing your favourite activities with you, he clearly wants to spend more time with you. Perhaps he watches  a chick flick like “The Notebook” with you. No matters what his feelings are about your interests, he will do them just so to be in your presence more often.
• Spending His Weekends With You…We all lead busy lives, so weekends are the main time we can relax and do what we enjoy most. So, if a guy is just your buddy, he will leave the weekends for something that he happens to enjoy most…golf, hanging out with his mates, bar hopping, etc. But, when a man wants to spend his entire weekends with you, it’s evident that you are one of his favourite things! This happens involuntarily because when a man really likes a girl, he just wants to be around her 24/7. The guy does not think “If I hang around all day with, her she’ll see that I’m crazy about her.” No, he just does this because it’s what he honestly wants to do the most over his weekend. So, if a guy elects to spend his weekend with you, you clearly mean a lot to him.
• He’s Overly Concerned…We all feel degrees of concern about our friends and relatives; however, when your guy is overly concerned about you, he’s truly into you. If he asks you if you had lunch, offers his coat when you’re cold or takes you to the doctor for something minor, he’s overly concerned about you.  At times this is fine but it can become frustrating. He just can’t control this compulsion. A loving man instinctively wants to “take care of his woman.”  Now, these instincts only kick in when he genuinely has feelings for her so it is a barometer of his emotions.

Now, these first 5 ways indicate if a guy is into you but what about being really into you or even in love with you? 
The next 5 ways take you a step further.

• He Loves To Touch You…Did you just get a new pair of earrings? If so, he may rub his fingers innocently by your ears as he checks them out. A man that likes a woman will want to touch her in a sensual way, not a crass, perverted way. Guys involuntarily love to make contact with a woman they really like.  If he is constantly touching some part of you, he’s clearly really into you. He just can’t stop it, he wants to feel you all the time. This feels natural to him and another way he asserts his masculinity. So, as a woman if you feel same way, you should naturally respond by touching him back.
• He Gives You a Cute Nickname…Nicknames are a fun, involuntary way for men to show their emotions. Unlike women,  men find it harder to show emotions but a nickname is an easy way to do it. Basically, a man take’s a girl he likes and gives her a nickname.  By doing this, he associates that nickname with a pleasurable feeling so, whenever he says that word, he feel that awesome feeling. Indeed, this is a basic way that a man shows his emotions. As well, the more he calls you by that name, the more he wants to feel that feeling, which proves that he is  for you.
• Your Birthday Is Everyday
  …This one is the most evident but it’s important. If he sends you flowers at work, buys you gifts and takes you out all the time, he’s definitely into you. If he’s still doing this even following sex, he’s probably in love with you.  
  Men who are poor at displaying emotions often like presenting a woman with gifts and treating her on dates.  These are fabulous ways for them to express their feelings without too many words.   It is wise to cherish these early stages of the relationship because this is when guys really display their affection.

• Attends To Your Needs…
  This is completely involuntary when a man is into a woman. It becomes even more evident when you’re in a group of his friends. If he gives you special attention, more attention than to his friends, you have him. After all, any guy that pays you more attention than he does to his friends cares much more about you.  

• Watch His Friends
  …Humans tend to discuss whatever is on their minds. Thus, when you fall in love, that special person is always on your mind. 
  Consequently, all you talk about is that person.  
  If you meet up with his friends and they say, “We’ve heard so much about you, Kate!” and “It’s so great to finally meet you.”  Even when you start telling a story about a recent incident in your life, the guys say “We heard…your guy already told us.” Clearly you have recently been the main topic in his conversations. 
  Also, if you’re out with his friends and they focus on what you say, do and how you feel, your man has already told them that he likes you and wants them to be on their best behavior to impress you.  For a man this is vital
  .  If he encourages his friends to be extra nice to you, you will feel comfortable around them (you can hang out more together).  Moreover, if you are enjoying yourself, you will also be pleasant and as a direct result, his friends will also like you. Indeed, they were nice to you at first and now they actually like you because of that. I
  f man goes to all this trouble for you, he’s probably in love with you.

I am Dakini Devi Bliss, a Certified Tantric Educator, Sacred Intimate and Blissful Bodyworker. A lifelong spiritual seeker, I have been  formally trained in energetic aura manipulation, Kundalini awakening, Tantric healing, massage therapy and Reiki. In my multiple-disciplined approach,  I manipulate sexual energy for the highest good. With a background in tantra, kundalini yoga, meditation, qi gong, energy work, sexual psychology and relationship coaching, I employ a unique, rich healing blend for each client. My tantra training initiation was a lengthy process extending over several years, including studies in India, to gain the necessary experience to instruct others.  My spiritually-based professional practice is ideal for those wish to open up to a higher, enlightened state. My work is geared for those interested in using tantra to create kundalini awakening and a deeper connection to their partner(s). I possess a nurturing, joyful nature with a peaceful warrior mindset.   Contact me through my website or call 613 878-8179 to book a session.

Were you ever in a relationship that you assumed was going well and then suddenly you turned around to discover it was over?   Did you feel totally unprepared for it to end? The misplaced desire to hang onto a partner who no longer loves or wants you may be  the toughest rejection to overcome.  When your partner finally throws in the towel and opts to move on, you may see only their good qualities and dismiss the emotional or psychic pain they have caused you.

My client Maryse, a 31-year-old pert, petite successful broker, was devastated when her 27-year-old fiancé JIm abruptly called off their engagement.  She felt it was out of the blue so she had no idea how to react or what to do.
Sobbing inconsolably, tears streaming down her face, Maryse said, “No other man can ever fulfill all my wants and desires the Jim did.”  Despite the fact that Jim had unceremoniously dumped her via a terse email, Maryse claimed that she was on the brink of suicide.

After several minutes of grounding the heartbroken woman with some mental clearing exercises and deep breathing, I asked her if Jim had been distancing himself before the break-up.  She did observe that he was calling fewer times during the day and working longer hours at his engineering firm, where a lot of lay-offs were occurring.  In general, he had been less attentive and spending less time with her.
Her fear of losing him made her react to those changes in a way that only worsened the problems in the relationship. Rather than being more present and inquiring how she could support him, she felt outraged that he had ceased treating her as his ‘divine princess’.  “No other woman can equal me so he’s a total idiot to pull away from me.”   Indeed, she was so self-absorbed that she had lost her way in navigating the relationship.
Maryse’s fiancé who had been recently hired was deeply concerned about losing his job, especially before entering a marriage.  Being fully aware that Maryse enjoyed the finer things in life, Jim  knew that a potential job loss would threaten their relationship.  Had she been more supportive and compassionate instead of angry and accusatory, she might have been able to turn the relationship around. Instead, she punished him by highlighting how he was wrong, unconsciously jumpstarting the break up.  Maryse’s own selfish behaviour likely turned Jim off so completely that he could only imagined marriage to her as a fate worse than death.
During our 3-month long coaching period, I pointed out these apparent conflicts to Maryse. After some resistance, she acknowledged that she had been taking Jim’s love and attention for granted.  Ultimately, she began to see how she had contributed to his loss of interest in her.
She also confessed to rejecting his sexual advances to even further punish him for his recent inattention.  She now understands that her withdrawal of sexual relations cemented any damage in the already tenuous relationship.
Oddly enough, she now wanted him back and forgot about his perceived flaws.  She remembered him as being the ideal mate.  At first, she demanded that I share tips with her on how to win back his love and devotion to her.
Sadly Maryse had failed to grasp that a woman can only bond a man to her by conveying her unwavering love and admiration for him through her eyes.
A man actually craves this ongoing validation but usually does not express this intrinsic need. A woman needs to be able to read his soul in order to connect to his heart.   Fantastic sex initially attracts a man but only your unconditional respect and admiration maintains his eternal adoration for you.
I helped Maryse forgive herself for being unaware of this.  After all, she was raised by a cold, psychologically unstable mother who constantly attacked her ex-husband, long after their bitter divorce.   Maryse had unconsciously adopted this wrong-headed, ineffective model for dealing with a man she deeply cared for. During her chaotic upbringing, she was constantly exposed to a communication pattern full of harsh, venomous, accusatory words instead of warm, loving, supporting ones.
Maryse never used that tough language when they first met because they were immersed in that initial ‘being so much in love’ state  In this ‘rose-tinted glasses phase’, a woman often projects her vision onto her lover that she has been saving herself just for him.  In her mind, he is the one perfect match who can fulfill her every need and desire.
Later, reality sets in and couples move from a state of being in love to truly loving each other.  Both partners must witness the genuine love, respect and admiration in their beloved’s eyes in order to transition from giddy discovery to long-lasting connection.
Couples show how much they respect and admire each other through they way they talk to each other. Are you like Maryse who grew up with an unhealthy model of her parents’ relationship?   If so, you must direct yourself to establish and maintain loving lines of  open communication and heartfelt dialogue. It may feel awkward at the outset but it spells the difference between a flourishing relationship and a failed one.
When Maryse stopped blaming herself for losing her fiancé, her perspective shifted.  She detached herself from the notion of wanting him back.  While it was a difficult,  she had been savvy enough to reach out to a relationship advisor instead of fantasizing how she could win him back through some magic potion or sexy spell.
The breakthrough occurred when Maryse realized that she could become the kind, wise, intuitive woman who knows how to get her own needs met as well as respond to those of her man.
During our sessions, Maryse and I employed the following Tantric truisms as a guideline to keep her on track as she underwent an attitudinal adjustment towards herself and intimate relationships with men.  

Tantric Relationship Truisms

• In life, everyone you meet has a purpose.  Some may test you, others use,  few teach you.  Most importantly, some bring out your best.
• Keep people in your life who love you, motivate you, encourage you, enhance you and make you happy.  If a person does none of these, let them go.
• Love is not about sex or showing off on fancy dates.  It’s about being with the one who makes you happy in a way nobody else can.
• Never underestimate the power of a touch, smile, kind word, listening ear, compliment or small act of caring. They all have the potential to turn a life around.  
• The most wonderful thing to see is your beloved smiling, especially when you know that you are the real reason behind it.
• Choose your relationships wisely.  It’s far better to be alone than wallow in bad company.
• Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being lonely does not mean you are alone.
• Fall in love when you are ready, not when you are lonely.
• Love is giving another the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to.
• You have found true love when you catch yourself falling in love with them over and again.
• Don’t wait for the right one to enter your life.  Rather, become the right one to enter someone else’s life.
• The one meant for you will encourage you to be your best while still loving and accepting you at your worst.
• Never let someone be your priority while becoming their option.
• Just because another no longer cares for you does not mean you should forget about everyone else who still does.
• Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.
• It ‘s fine to be angry but never fine to be cruel.
• Never do something permanently foolish because you are temporarily upset.
• Silence is often the loudest cry.  Pay heed to those you care about.
• We don’t always need advice. All we may need is a warm hand to hold, an empathic ear to listen and a kind heart to understand.

Are you struggling in the grim aftermath of a failed relationship?  Dakini Devi Bliss can teach you intimacy skills to help you heal from the pain and trauma of a break-up.  In the end, you can transform this unfortunate experience into a positive turning point in your life.

I am Dakini Devi Bliss, a Certified Tantric Educator, Sacred Intimate and Blissful Bodyworker. A lifelong spiritual seeker and Tantric Goddess, I have been  formally trained in energetic aura manipulation, Kundalini awakening, Tantric healing, massage therapy, Reiki and Dark Tantra.  In my multiple-disciplined approach, I manipulate sexual energy for the highest good. With a background in tantra, kundalini yoga, meditation, qi gong, energy work, sexual psychology and relationship coaching, I employ a unique, rich healing blend for each client. My tantra training initiation was a lengthy process extending over several years, including studies in India, to gain the necessary experience to instruct others.  My spiritually-based professional practice is ideal for those wish to open up to a higher, enlightened state. My work is geared for those interested in using tantra to create kundalini awakening and a deeper connection to their partner(s). I possess a nurturing, joyful nature with a peaceful warrior mindset.   Contact me through my website or call 613 878-8179 to book a session.

• Welcome to the Sacred Urban Sanctuary, an open gateway for all those who wish to explore Tantra and the Divine Mother’s unique gifts for healing body, mind and soul.

 The Sacred Urban Sanctuary Precepts

• A Free Body…Nobody but you controls your physical self.
• Free Speech…Nobody has a right to insert their words into your story.
• Free Energy…Nobody can manipulate how your energy flows.
• Free to Connect…Nobody has the right to dictate religious worship or private ritual between consenting adults.
• Female clergy should have legal rights equal to those of mullahs, rabbis and priests.
• Equal treatment under the law for tantra congregations who worship God and Goddess in Sacred union.

We define the Divine as both Mother and Father. 

Most worship sects devote their energies to studying ‘Father God’. 

When you revere the Mother Goddess, you honour your own body as the sacred vessel for your soul’s earthly journey.

Let us restore freedom in the holy body and conscious direction of your own life energy. 

Each of us has an inner knowledge of Divine Source.
Moreover, we can access this direct connect through energy and light. 

The Mother’s religion guides us to greater understanding of sacred sexuality, in full equality of the co-creators, God and Goddess.

Our mission is to help women, men and couples discover their own divine connection between soul, light body and sacred vessel. 
The Cosmos belongs to the Ma-Matter-Mother! 
We facilitate 1-on-1 sessions, couples training and play shops, all designed to reinstate Her wisdom in the 21st century. 
Our body centric teachings emanate from the resonating vessel, your own Sacred Self. We see the unique beauty of each individual story in every age, color and gender. 

Drawing upon the gifts of the Goddess, we use transformational tools in our tantric sexual heating that have been around since the dawn of humankind. 
We offer up the Mother’s nurturing bosom and body through the healing power of tantric touch, sacred herbs, essential oils, crystals and stones, along with sounds, music and love. 
We also work with the Father’s gifts of intention, self-direction and positive light polarity.  

In our Sacred Urban Sanctuary,  many traditions are interwoven to best guide us into the loving use of the life force within our bodies. 

As Dakas and dakinis, we conduct this heavenly light into the physical plane.

Similarly, we lift form into higher frequencies of Nirvana! 

This up-down pillar of light exchanges continuously between heaven and earth, body, soul and Source. 
You can feel wholly happy again in your body and fully safe with or without a partner. Your special matrix in this life source is yours to conduct and belongs to no other.

You are warmly invited to:

• Relax deeply on the Altar of the Light Body in a candlelit Transformation Chamber
• Feel the light of your own soul, located in your solar plexus
• Experience your light body; feel the chakra wheels spinning your Self into physical existence
• Feel the dynamic magnetism generated by male/female polarity.
• Learn to conduct and direct this powerful life force energy in closed conduits to intensify feeling
• Experience an exhilarating shift in your energy field.
• Leave feeling joyful, rejuvenated and refreshed!!  While in the presence of the Divine Mother, our Creatrix of physical form, no part of your being is left untouched.

I am Dakini Devi Bliss, a Certified Tantric Educator, Sacred Intimate and Blissful Bodyworker. A gifted, lifelong spiritual seeker, I have been  formally trained in energetic aura manipulation, Kundalini awakening, Tantric healing,  massage therapy and Reiki. In my multi-disciplined approach,  I manipulate sexual energy for the highest good. With a background in tantra, kundalini yoga, meditation, qi gong, energy work, sexual psychology and relationship coaching, I employ a unique, rich healing blend for each client. 

My tantra training initiation was a lengthy process extending over several years, including studies in India, to gain the necessary experience to instruct others.  My spiritually-based professional practice is ideal for those wish to open up to a higher, enlightened state. My work is geared for those interested in using tantra to create kundalini awakening and a deeper connection to their partner(s). I possess a nurturing, joyful nature with a peaceful warrior mindset.  

You can contact me through my website or call 613 878-8179 to book a session.

The Irish Goddess Aine represents the spark of life. Her festival was first celebrated on Midsummer’s eve. Later on, she was remembered as the fairy queen in Christian times.

The sun Goddesses represent the power and force of solar light. Today, we tend to associate the Goddess with lunar energy and the moon’s phases, representing the power shift away from the ancient matriarchal society. This power shift in power is revealed in many myths about the sun deities; i.e., the story of Akycha who fled to the sky after being raped by her own brother and the Djanggawul Sisters whose brothers stole their power objects.
Below is a list of global sun deities, Goddesses who reflect the sun’s direct power as opposed to the nurturing powers of Earth Goddesses.
It is also wise to study the mysterious moon Goddesses, the sun deities’ heavenly counterparts.

Sun Goddesses

Aditi, the Indian Hindu Goddess, is keeper of the light that illuminates all life and ensures consciousness. She gave birth to the universe and heavenly bodies.

Aine…This Irish Goddess who represents the spark of life was first celebrated on Midsummer’s eve. Later she was remembered in Christian times as the fairy queen
Akycha…An Alaskan solar Goddess who once lived on earth as a beautiful woman. She fled into the sky after her brother raped her.
Amaterasu…Japanese Shinto Goddess, her name means great shinning heaven. She is the head of the Japanese pantheon and her emblem, the rising sun, appears on the Japanese flag.

Bast…The Egyptian Lion Goddess of sunset symbolized the sun’s fertilizing rays, along with her many other roles.
Beiwe…Sámi, Goddess of Lapland. was celebrated at the summer solstice for providing the light the plants needed to grow. These in turn fed the reindeer that were vital source of food, clothing and tools for the people.
Bila…The cannibal Aboriginal Goddess who provided light for the world by cooking her victims over a giant flame. She was chased away but the world was then plunged into darkness, so Bila was captured and tethered to the earth.
Brigid…A Celtic fire Goddess, as a solar deity her attributes are light, inspiration and all skills associated with fire.
Chup-Kamui...A modest Japanese moon Goddess. She traded places with the sun God as she was so embarrassed by the adulterous and lecherous behavior that was occurring at night.
Djanggawul Sisters...Aboriginal Goddesses from Arhemland. These daughters of the sun gave birth to all the plants and animals. Their magical power objects were stolen from them by their brothers.
Hathor...Egyptian Goddess of the sky. Hathor is depicted with the solar disk indicating that this is one of her many areas of influence.
Hekoolas...Native American Goddess, with the help of the trickster Coyote, man was able to convince her to light up this world.
Medusa …The Greek Goddess is said to derive from an earlier Anatolian deity. This theory is supported by images of her with a lion that symbolized the power of the sun.
Pattini…A Sri Lankan solar deity who represents the heat of the sun’s rays.
Olwen…Welsh sun Goddess, her name means “golden wheel.”

Saule…This Lithuanian golden haired Goddess rode across the sky in a chariot pulled by two white horses with golden manes, battling with the powers of darkness.
Sekhmet...A Lion headed Goddess of Egypt, she represented the destructive qualities of sun rays causing drought and famine.

Shapash.. Phoenician Goddess whose name meant “torch or light of the Gods”. In addition to being a solar Goddess, she could travel through the realms of the dead.
Solntse…Slavic sun Goddess
Sunna...Nordic Goddess of the Sun, also known as Sol, her chariot was pulled across the sky by two horses
Uelanuhi...Cherokee Goddess of the Sun; her name meant “apportioner”, as she was responsible for dividing time into units. Her warmth was captured for man by Grandmother Spiderwoman’s web.

Walo...Aboriginal Goddess who traveled across the sky with her daughter, Bar. One day Walo realized that the earth was becoming parched was due to their combined heat so she sent her daughter back to the east so that the earth could become fertile and bloom.

Wuriupranili…This Aboriginal sun deity lit a bark torch and carried the flame through the sky from east to west. At the western sea, she dipped it in the water, then used the embers to guide her under the earth to reach her starting point again.
Wurusemu…Ancient Hittite sun Goddess. She is also known as Arinna.
Xatel-Ekwa…Hungarian Goddess, like many other ancient European solar Goddesses, she is linked with horses as she rode through the air on three steeds.

Pagans called the Midsummer moon the Honey Moon” for the mead made from fermented honey that was part of wedding ceremonies performed at the Summer Solstice.
Ancient Pagans celebrated Midsummer with bonfires, when couples would leap through the flames, believing their crops would grow as high as the couples were able to jump.

In Tantra, channelling orgasmic energy can supercharge your reality with restorative, rejuvenating life forces. That same life force that created you can fuel your visions with creative life forces.

in his infamous book, Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill refers to the process of Channeling Orgasmic Energy as ‘Sexual Transmutation.’

Hill discusses transmuting energy from one area to another or directing energy to maximize its benefits. The tantric practice of empowering pleasure with intention gives the pleasure a conscious purpose which tends to magically boost it in a wonderful way.  As well, It also attracts and perpetuates the energy of pleasure, power and positivity which exudes magnetic attraction to all in your sphere of influence.

Clearly, our every thought can influence our reality. Thoughts infused with orgasmic pleasure tend to be highly magnetic. Imagine what you want to draw into your life with this powerful magnetic field being activated by the summer solstice.

RITUAL: Use a ritual cleanse to prepare body and spirit for deep receptivity and magnetizing.  Water promotes a deep state peace and relaxation that enhances our magnetic field. Thus, dip your whole body into the pool, hot tub, lake or ocean. If need be, a  shower or bath will also suffice.  Before immersing yourself into the water, charge it up with a thought that holds the energy of what you want to attract or create in your life. For instance, if you want good health, state a prayer of intention for the water to detoxify and and purify your body so it can establish good health.   If your intention is to attract the ideal beloved, your statement of intention should suggest that the water cleanse you of all current obstacles that hold you back from encountering and keeping your dream partner.  Then step into the water and surrender to its fluidity keeping that thought in the back of your mind.

Then, prepare your body for pleasure with relaxing movements, like yoga stretches or rhythmic dance to put you in touch with your body. Tantric massage is ideal as it both relaxes and arouses, by first releasing bodily tension, then stroking upwards and inwards towards erogenous zones, up the thighs to the sexual centre.  Holding the vision of your intention again in your mind what you wish to create and caress your sexual center and your breasts, then onwards up to your face, neck and head.  Essentially, you are caressing your entire body or your partner’s to both stimulate and promote a state of deep, relaxed arousal. The more relaxed you are, the more aroused you can be. Relaxed arousal is the secret elixir that lets your mind focus on intention rather than trying to control sexual stimulation.

Allow yourself or your partner to reach heightened states of arousal through these  caressing strokes, heightening the intensity, pausing to keep from tipping over the edge. Once you have gained your composure, continue the caresses to sustain that heightened state of arousal as long as possible, peaking several times without climaxing. Each time visualizing what you wish to attract into your life in an image that perceives you manifesting this experience in the present moment.  Holding that image along with your aroused sensual state infuses your desire with high notes of magnetic positive energy.

You can enjoy this state of relaxed aroused and intentional bliss for as long as you like with several peaks. Should you opt to climax at the end of this ritual,  passionately express your sensations of pleasure, clearly mentally visualizing your intention as if it were already manifest.  in the afterglow of your peak, consciously anoint your forehead with your sexual fluids to imprint this combination of intention and relaxed arousal into your brain’s frontal lobe, harmonizing pleasure and positivity for all you wish for in life. May the Divine bless this empowering ritual! 

Nota bene..Charge some water with this intention to internally infuse yourself as well your vision intention. Before drinking it, make a wish and then drink the wish-blessed water!

 I am Dakini Devi Bliss, a Certified Tantric Educator, Sacred Intimate and Blissful Bodyworker. A lifelong spiritual seeker, I have been  formally trained in energetic aura manipulation, Kundalini awakening, Tantric healing, massage therapy, Reiki and Dark Tantra.  In my multiple-disciplined approach, I manipulate sexual energy for the highest good. With a background in tantra, kundalini yoga, meditation, qi gong, energy work, sexual psychology and relationship coaching, I employ a unique, rich healing blend for each client. My tantra training initiation was a lengthy process extending over several years, including studies in India, to gain the necessary experience to instruct others.  My spiritually-based professional practice is ideal for those wish to open up to a higher, enlightened state. My work is geared for those interested in using tantra to create kundalini awakening and a deeper connection to their partner(s). I possess a nurturing, joyful nature with a peaceful warrior mindset.  

Contact me through my website or call 613 878-8179 to book a session

I invite you explore an electrifying ride for the senses, an innovative psychosexual expedition.

As your guide, I bring my own style and expertise to every dark tantra or bondassage session.

Suspend time and transcend reality in new Realms of Pleasure.Bondassage brings you to unknown heights of bliss, stretching your sensual boundaries, transporting you to new realms of pleasure.

Focusing on your sole satisfaction, using a unique combination of ancient esoteric techniques, I combine a mesmerizing sequence of extraordinary touches, enticing all the senses. Expertly controlling your blissful state of relaxation, I afford you a multi-dimensional experience designed to expand your sensory boundaries.
Together, we focus the senses, combining Ayurvedic, Kashmiri and Taoist principles with soft bondage and sensory focusing tools. Alternating soft brush strokes and expert caresses, I bring you the ultimate sensual experience.Experience the epitome in innovative body play. Let us raise the bar of bearable bliss to untried peaks. Designed for massage enthusiasts seeking the ultimate test of self control.

I am a consummate expert at teasing for prolonged periods of time.

 How much of the pleasure/pain dynamic can you take?

I am Devi Bliss, a busty blonde naturally sensual Goddess, a delightful mixture of naughty and nice. This certified massage therapist, tantric educator, Intuitive energy healer, passionate priestess is also a talented Femdom.

I have been providing sublime Tantric FBSM for several years. Bondassage is a wonderful addition to my practice as I am a sensualist, but not a sadist. I have found that my sensual and playful personality compliment these sessions much better. I am a natural born dominant, but what pleases me, is to taunt and tease. That is the essence of the Bondassage experience.
If you have always wanted to explore BDSM but desire a soft introduction, or have little interest in the hard core aspect, Bondassage is the ideal choice.

 A sweet, yet demanding Goddess, I can be stern but never cruel. I need not shout nor inflict heavy pain to put my point across. Rather, I skillfully control you with powerful energy, hypnotic touch, concentrated breathing, fixed gazes and strict whispers. My sessions include various implements (from feathers to floggers) enhancing your experience and heightening your senses. I offer a complete mind-body-spiritual adventure in Letting Go.

I take tremendous personal pleasure in being your guide on this journey into blissful submission. When you enter my urban sanctuary, I ask that yo leave your day-to-day identity at the door. Let go of status, labels and ego. It is time to totally escape the responsibilities of the outside worl and spend some time in Mine. 

For Men, Women and Couples

• Do you yearn for more pizzazz in your play?
• Do you have a submissive side you have been aching to explore?
• Are you an adventure seeker open to new possibilities of sensation?

My sessions are long, luxurious, relaxing, playful and amazingly delicious!  You may enter stressed, tired and tensed out but you will always leave refreshed, renewed and relieved.

Imagine the thrill of trying something novel and and exciting…collared, cuffed, tied to the table and blindfolded 

First, I will knowingly tease you nose to toes with soft caresses and hot oil swedish/deep tissue erotic massage.

Next comes the spice!  A pinch of this and pinch of that, such delicious edges of pleasure will increase until you are begging for a release!

Weaving together my magnificent massage with light BDSM is a sensual treat not to be missed..

If the finest in massage, punctuated with erotic sensation play while blindfolded and strapped down to a cushy massage table sounds appealing, you will love Bondassage.  Indulge in a decadent feast of delicious sensations, from deep relaxation to highly stimulating touch. This rich blend of virtuoso massage skills, body percussion, submission, sensation play and sensory deprivation will catapult you to unimaginable places, like nothing you have ever experienced. 

Dark Tantra Sessions may include:

• Role Play
• Bondage and Domination
• Sacred Ritual
• Strap-On Play
• Goddess Worship Training
• Breathwork and Erotic Trance

• 260 …1 hour
• 360…90 minutes
• 500…2 hours

Booking/Screening info: I am available by advance appointment only at my discreet private Ottawa studio space.  I also offer outcall on a case-by-case basis. (plus travel fees)

Now is the time is to awaken all your senses and join me on an erotic journey. Remember, it’s only kinky the first time.

Feathers and Leather,
Mistress Devi Bliss

I am Dakini Devi Bliss, a Certified Tantric Educator, Sacred Intimate and Blissful Bodyworker. A lifelong spiritual seeker, I have been  formally trained in energetic aura manipulation, Kundalini awakening, Tantric healing, massage therapy, Reiki and Dark Tantra.  In my multiple-disciplined approach, I manipulate sexual energy for the highest good. With a background in tantra, kundalini yoga, meditation, qi gong, energy work, sexual psychology and relationship coaching, I employ a unique, rich healing blend for each client. My tantra training initiation was a lengthy process extending over several years, including studies in India, to gain the necessary experience to instruct others.  My spiritually-based professional practice is ideal for those wish to open up to a higher, enlightened state. My work is geared for those interested in using tantra to create kundalini awakening and a deeper connection to their partner(s). I possess a nurturing, joyful nature with a peaceful warrior mindset.   Contact me through my website or call 613 878-8179 to book a session.

The naked truth can inspire, motivate and remind you that you are not confined by the boundaries imposed upon you by others. 

Meditate and Practice yoga in the nude At one with your body and nature Breathe in, breathe out, breathe freely.

Fill your Soul with Expansive Gratitude! Ease back into the gorgeous flow of the Divine.  Your go-to fuel up is communing in nature, giving yourself over to wonder and beauty. The restorative process is so healing that words and worries fall away as you  follow The Goddess  wherever She may lead you. The body and mind of the naturist loves sunshine and bright colours. Some naturists anchor their spiritual practice by visualizing butterflies in all their natural wonder and spectacular beauty.They claim butterflies posses powers that serve to calm, restore, relax, protect, comfort and  heal them.

Your Words and Actions Directly Impact those Around You – Lead by example.  Practice what you preach or go home.  Walk the talk!  People watch what you do more than they listen to what you say.  Inspire, challenge and encourage others to do their best, by doing your best.  When another is doing a great job, express your pride in their efforts.  Encourage them.  Take time to recognize their efforts.  If they know you believe in them, they can do amazing things and will go to great lengths to surpass your expectations.  Become the most positive,  enthusiastic person you know.  Optimism is a happiness magnet.  If you stay hopeful and confident, good people and positive energy will be drawn to you.

This is my life; my dreams are worth it....Life is a courageous journey or nothing at all.  We cannot become who we want to be by continuing to do exactly what we have been.  If you are passionate about something, pursue it, no matter what.  That’s how dreams are achieved.   Ignore those who say that you cannot fulfill your dreams.   The only place where your goals and dreams are impossible is inside your head.   Once you dream it, you are halfway there.  Go ahead and follow through! May your dreams overshadow your fears; your actions outshine your words.  Follow your heart in spite of what others tell say. At  day’s end, you must live with your own decisions.

Everything  is a Life Lesson…All the people we meet or situations we encounter form part of the learning experience called life. Acknowledge these lessons, especially when things go awry.  If you don’t get a desired job or a relationship fails, something better is out there waiting.  The lesson you just learned is the first step towards it. Remember, there are no mistakes, only lessons.  Love your Self, trust your choices, remember what you deserve,  keep pushing forward!

I am Dakini Devi Bliss, a Certified Tantric Educator, Sacred Intimate and Blissful Bodyworker. A lifelong spiritual seeker, I have been  formally trained in energetic aura manipulation, Kundalini awakening, Tantric healing, massage therapy and Reiki. In my multiple-disciplined approach,  I manipulate sexual energy for the highest good. With a background in tantra, kundalini yoga, meditation, qi gong, energy work, sexual psychology and relationship coaching, I employ a unique, rich healing blend for each client. My tantra training initiation was a lengthy process extending over several years, including studies in India, to gain the necessary experience to instruct others.  My spiritually-based professional practice is ideal for those wish to open up to a higher, enlightened state. My work is geared for those interested in using tantra to create kundalini awakening and a deeper connection to their partner(s). I possess a nurturing, joyful nature with a peaceful warrior mindset.   Contact me through my website or call 613 878-8179 to book a session.

Have you been feeling disconnected and dissatisfied in the bedroom lately?  If so, it may be time to discover more about your sexual self and how you to better interact with your intimate partner(s)?

What is your core erotic wiring?  The four main types of erotic wiring include energetic, sensual, sexual and kinky wiring.  We each have a unique core, which can combine one or two of these.  

Every couple faces a number of challenges in forging an outstanding relationship. For instance, at the outset of their relationship, a woman may have been strongly attracted to the opposite wiring in her male partner.  Yet, this attraction can become problematic as the relationship progresses, especially if she has an energetic core wiring.  

I am Dakini Devi Bliss, a Certified Tantric Educator, Sacred Inimate and Blissful Bodyworker. A gifted, lifelong spiritual seeker, I have been  formally trained in energetic aura manipulation, Kundalini awakening, Tantric healing, massage therapy and Reiki. In my multiple-disciplined approach,  I manipulate sexual energy for the highest good. With a background in tantra, kundalini yoga, meditation, qi gong, energy work, sexual psychology and relationship coaching, I employ a unique, rich healing blend for each client. My tantra training initiation was a lengthy process extending over several years, including studies in India, to gain the necessary experience to instruct others.  My spiritually-based professional practice is ideal for those wish to open up to a higher, enlightened state. My work is geared for those interested in using tantra to create kundalini awakening and a deeper connection to their partner(s). I possess a nurturing, joyful nature with a peaceful warrior mindset.   Contact me through my website or call 613 878-8179 to book a session.

Meditation is a ritual attunement with Divine Essence, the universal life energy streaming through all that is. It raises  consciousness to a loftier, more profound plateau of discernment. A perceptual transposition takes place from the mental/physical to the immaterial, from boundaries to boundlessness, from the finite to Infinite. 

Our inner Self recognizes its own imperishable ageless totality and perfection through meditation practice.

During recent years there, scientific research has promulgated the latest therapeutic discoveries. Eat this to reduce your risk of prostrate cancer; drink that to unclog your arteries; stop that to lessen your risk of heart disease; swallow this to live forever. Yet, certain types of meditation have been proven to lower blood pressure and stress levels. Thus, meditation has practical value physically speaking, besides augmenting your intuition and productivity.

Nominate one room as your sanctum sanctorum where you will be totally undisturbed.  

• Construct your own altar if you wish; i.e., table with mirror, candles or an object you deem sacred).
• Shower or wash your hands. You are entering your holy place.
• Don’t meditate after consuming a large meal.
• Clothing should be loose and comfortable. Set aside a robe for exclusive use in your sanctum.
• Play appropriate music during the preparatory stage, but not during the meditation itself.
• Good times to meditate are early in the morning or just before retiring for the day. 
• Most Westerners find the lotus position uncomfortable, citing leg cramps as distracting.  If this is the case, find a firm but cozy chair and sit with your spine and neck straight, feet apart on the floor, hands resting on your knees/thighs palms down (or palms up with thumbs touching middle fingers).
• Light a candle or some incense.
• Deep breathing exercises relax the body and stimulate the psychic centers. There are various methods (inhale through the nose, hold the breath as long as possible while concentrating this influx of energy into your feet, and then exhale. With the next breath focus on your calves, then your knees, and gradually work your way up the body to your head).